Life Reloaded!!!

Well, few years ago I had a conversation with a friend of mine. I might have even blogged about it, but I am not quite sure. The point of conversation was a set of events and how does one interpret them. What had happened then was that my friend used to like a girl and was trying his level best to meet her. Unfortunately (or was it fortunate?), whenever he made a plan to meet her, it was thwarted by some event or the other. So we were wondering if we had "link" these events, what would be the inference? There can be three inferences -  They are totally random events. Destiny is trying to indicate you that you are making a mistake and wants to avoid that path. Destiny is trying to test your patience. An Econ would infer first point. On the other hand, people like you and me who unlike Dr.   Sheldon Cooper from The Big Bang Theory have an emotional quotient and usually try to find pattern in things, would go for choice 2 or 3. But which one is it, depends on our own ...

Tu Kahaan, Ye Bata, Is Nasheelee Raat Mein Maane Na Mera Dil Deewaana Haay Re, Maane Na Mera Dil Deewaana He, Bada Natkhat Hai Sama Har Nazaara Hai Jawaan Chha Gaya Chaaron Taraf, Meri Aahon Ka Dhuaan Dil Mera, Meri Jaan, Na Jalaa Tu Kahaan... Ho, Aai Jab Thandi Hawa Maine Poochha Jo Pata Vo Bhi Katrake Gai, Aur Bechain Kiya Pyar Se, Tu Mujhe, De Sada Tu Kahaan... He, Chand Taaron Ne Suna In Bahaaron Ne Suna Dard Ka Raag Mera, Rehguzaron Ne Suna Tu Bhi Soon, Jaaneman, Aa Bhi Jaa Tu Kahaan... Ho, Pyaar Ka Dekho Asar Aaye Tum Thaame Jigar Mil Gayi Aaj Mujhe, Meri Manchahi Dagar Kyun Chhupa, Ek Jhalak, Phir Dikha Tu Kahaan...

Its 14th Feb and as I had promised my friends that I will write a special post on Valentine day, here is the same. To tell you all,I had 2 major encounters of so called Love in my life and both the times I soon realized that I was misinterpreting my feelings. With the first one it was "Friendship" and in second case it was "Attraction". This does not mean I don't believe in love but just that I have never felt the way, it is written in books or shown on TV. I have personally been successful in identifying "love" interests between my college friends before even their best friends could come to know. Particularly, in case of Madhura and Anup. Hey, I am not the best of friends with them but may be because of my observation skills or may be pure coincidence, I always felt that it is one good pair in making. This feeling was at peak when we had gathered for 31st Dec night out. So when Madhav told me about the pair being together in Feb I was smiling in my ...